This week has been Scott's first week of his new schedule. He now works mon-thursday from 2:30-11pm and sundays from 11:30-8pm. Tonight is night number 5 of me doing the whole single mom thing with the boys, getting them fed, bathed, homework done... ect. Let me tell you, I am tired!
I have learned that Josh takes more time than I thought... and I never have anyone to help me hold him down for the things he hates. I have learned as well that he is not a kid you can bribe and even smarties does not work. Awesome.
I have learned that Jordan must have a book of 1001 reasons he can't do what I asked him to do.... hidden somewhere in this house. That kid can make up the most amazing excuses.
I have learned that Trevor must like to do his homework and reading with only Scott, because I have had a fight on my hands every night over that. He has usually asked Scott to help him, but I thought it was just because I was busy. mmm... nope.
I have learned that the only way I can survive each night is to laugh. Sometimes it's all you can do when things are chaotic.
I have learned that I can multi-task even more than I ever thought. I wonder if there is some kind of talent contest for that. I might win.
I have learned that multi-tasking with a G-tube is NOT a talent I have however. I can shoot water or formula on my 12ft ceiling. Maybe I could win an award for that though..
I have learned that it takes much more planning and organizing to make things run smoother than I have now. This weekend will be a re-evaluate and plan time for me.
And the last few tidbits of info I learned this week? Orange Gatorade does not come out of the carpet, Hot chocolate and white shirts are a bad idea, Josh is not allowed to touch his G-tube anymore, corn dogs are OK for breakfast (I lost that battle), kids and fish aren't a good combo, and there should never be any sugar allowed in my house again. Oh.. and I miss Scott and all his help!
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ReplyDeletehahaha you totally crack me up! I do have to point out that YOU are DOING IT! Don't forget to pat your self on the back! I am sending you a high 5 woman!
ReplyDeleteThis made me smile. I am glad you made it through your crazy week. Sounds like your a fabulous mom and if corndogs for breakfast and orange carpet are the worst of it? You rock. :) I hope Scott is liking his job.
ReplyDeleteYou are amazing! I can't believe all you do. You are an awesome multitalented mom!
ReplyDeleteIt is very hard to feel like a single mom. I remember what it was like when Jeff was traveling more. I love how you are just focusing on the things you are learning. What a great attitude! It will get easier. This too shall pass! I was craving a corn dog the other day and couldn't find one! Maybe you could send me one for breakfast! ha ah
ReplyDeletehee hee hee!
ReplyDeleteI empathize with so much but you still make me laugh. Way to keep the best attitude you can! That helps a lot.
It will get a little easier......or maybe we just get used to the chaos. ;)
At least you have him in the morning, right? Okay, I'm trying to be positive. Good luck getting into this new routine. I hope it gets a little better over time.
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